If you’re in a leadership position, then you must know that the people you lead want to know some stuff as well. They want to know if they are doing what is expected of them. They want to know if they are meeting or exceeding expectations. They need to know if they’re not.

If you’ve hired the right people, then they have a strong desire to improve over time. They also need to know what “qualifies” as improvement. They want and need to know that what they are doing is worthwhile and makes a difference. They need, absolutely need, to know that they matter.

All of that information can only accurately come from the feedback given to them by you, their leader. If you’re an Authentic Leader, then all feedback, whether it’s feedback leading to corrective action, feedback for continuous improvement, or feedback for positive reinforcement, will be provided in a constructive manner.

Providing constructive feedback is a critical leadership skill that helps your team grow while maintaining motivation and morale. Every member of your team needs regular doses of constructive feedback. Here’s how you can do it effectively.

1. Be Specific and Clear

Vague feedback leads to confusion. Instead of saying, “You need to be better in meetings,” say, “I noticed in today’s meeting that your points were great, but they got lost because you spoke too fast. Try slowing down to ensure everyone follows your ideas.”

2. Focus on Behaviors, Not Personality

Avoid making it personal. Instead of saying, “You’re too careless,” say, “I noticed a few errors in the report. Let’s go through them together to see how we can minimize mistakes next time.”

3. Use the “Praise-Correct-Praise” Method (Sandwich Approach)

Start with something positive, then provide constructive feedback, and end with encouragement.

Example: “Your presentations are always engaging. One area to improve is the clarity of your key points. Maybe structuring them in bullet form could help. Keep up the good work—I know you’ll make it even better!”

4. Encourage a Two-Way Conversation

Feedback should be a discussion, not a monologue. Ask, “How do you feel about this?” or “What support do you need to improve in this area?” This makes them feel valued and involved in their own growth.

5. Provide Solutions, Not Just Criticism

Pointing out problems without offering guidance can be demoralizing. Instead of just saying what’s wrong, suggest ways to improve. “Your report has some missing data. Maybe setting up a checklist before submission could help.”

6. Give Feedback in a Timely Manner

Don’t wait too long. Feedback is most effective when given soon after the event. However, avoid giving feedback in the heat of the moment if emotions are high.

7. Adapt Your Approach Based on the Individual

Some people prefer direct feedback, while others respond better to a softer approach. Understanding how your team members receive feedback can make it more effective.

8. Remember, feedback isn’t always about improving.

Make sure a good percentage of your feedback is positive reinforcement. As Dale Carnegie said, “Be hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise.” The people you lead crave your approval; make darn sure they get it whenever it is deserved.

9. Follow Up

Feedback is not a one-time event. Check in frequently to see if improvements have been made and recognize their efforts.

Weak leaders are often afraid of providing their people with consistent feedback. They see it as confrontational and they will do most anything to avoid conflict. But an Authentic Leader will tell you that providing well-thought-out, constructive feedback is anything but confrontational. It requires some effort to choose words that uplift rather than tear down. It sometimes requires practicing the feedback conversation beforehand. And it always requires listening and watching to determine if your message is being received.

The essence of leadership is influence. Providing consistent, constructive feedback to the people you lead is one of the most effective methods to influence them in a meaningful and positive way.

So do it!