I write from time to time on the importance of having a coach or a mentor. The best mentors show you what to do and how to do it. They don’t do it for you.
At some point all successful people did something to make themselves a success. They likely had a coach or mentor but they had to make the effort to act on the advice they received. THEY HAD TO ACT THEMSELVES!
Taking action to accomplish something requires a whole different kind of coach. It requires a “self-coach.” That would be you!
At some point you must push yourself. You must accept responsibility for your actions and decisions. What you’re taught can’t help you if you don’t apply it. The best advice in the world falls flat if you don’t use it.
If you do nothing then nothing is exactly what you should expect in return.
If you’re a good self-coach then you’re setting goals for yourself. Long-term, medium-term goals and short-term goals. Those short-term goals can be daily or even hourly. As an excellent self-coach you turn large, seemingly insurmountable tasks into a series of smaller tasks that you can accomplish on a daily or weekly basis.
That old city in Italy wasn’t built in a day and neither is long-term success. Doing a little each day will most definitely help you achieve a lot over time.
That’s the best thing about being/having a great self-coach…they are with you every day, all day.
The challenge with your self-coach, or your inner-coach, or whatever you want to call it, is the same as it is with a mentor or outside coach. You MUST listen to their advice and then act on it.
A single pound of action is worth more than a ton of good intentions. One thing highly successful people have in common with less successful people is that they both have good intentions. What most often separates the highly successful people from the less successful is that the most successful people act on those intentions.
So follow this coaches advice and ACT!
Nice post, Steve. I find it also beneficial to connect my longest-term goals with the shortest. Connectivity and consistency are both helpful. Be well.
Absolutely Jeff, we don’t actually “set” goals, we build them and the smaller ones are merely the foundation for the bigger ones.