This post has a pretty simple title. I’m hoping that everyone who reads this knows that unarguable fact.
Knowing it isn’t enough. If you’re a leader you must actually provide encouragement to your people. Consistent, planned and very intentional encouragement. Now, before you say that you “do that all the time” stop for a moment and think. Think about the last time you actually stopped long enough to truly focus on someone else and provide them with meaningful encouragement.
How long has it actually been?
If you’re thinking that “nice work” or “keep it up” or “way to go” is actually encouragement then I would suggest that you need to change your thinking. Passing someone in the hall and tossing a “nice job” their way is not encouragement. It’s not a compliment and it most certainly doesn’t pass muster as a sincere Thank You.
Actual encouragement is the act of providing positive feedback that focuses specifically on effort and/or improvement, rather than specific outcomes.
To encourage someone ask them how you can help them. Offer to assist (doing someone else’s work for them is not encouragement) them with advice or ideas. You may be surprised at just how powerful the simple question “How can I help?” really is.
Asking questions to help them uncover their own ideas is also a great encourager, especially when you point out that the idea is their very own.
Offer encouragement in public, let everyone see what a difference true encouragement can make. When you bring encouragement out into the open you develop a culture of encouragement within your organization.
Providing real encouragement to others requires practice and preparation. Authentic Leaders set aside time to make certain this vital leadership responsibility does not fall through the cracks. Keep your eyes focused on your people and you’ll find plenty of opportunities to offer real encouragement.
It might not be easy or even comfortable at first but keep at it. Once you become an habitual encourager you’ll wonder why you didn’t develop this awesome habit long ago.
4 thoughts on “Everyone Needs Encouragement”
Thanks, Steve. It’s a great reminder of the importance and value of encouragement. I think it’s somewhat synonymous with support. We can also encourage, a word I like to think of as “empowering and equipping with courage” to instill more competence and confidence. Help people move forward, learn, grow, and change and be more contributing members of the team.
Thanks, two words I think sum up your comment and make me agree 100% – “Help people!” That is true leadership, just help people grow and get better, if we do that we will have led.
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