You’ve chosen your way to the life you have.
To those who would say they have not chosen their life, that their circumstances and events outside of their control have chosen their life I say to you: excuses, excuses, excuses.
The more you allow circumstances to control your life the less control of your life you have. If you’re allowing circumstances to control your life you’ve undoubtedly forgotten about the incredible power of you. You, like every other person on the planet can have more control over your life just by taking it.
Successful people control the circumstances of their life, they put themselves in a position to succeed. They use the circumstances of their life to their benefit, regardless of what those circumstances happen to be.
You make choices every day, and every choice has a consequence. It could be a positive consequence or it could be a negative consequence but no choice in life goes unnoticed.
Perhaps the most important choice you make every day is the choice of a positive attitude. A positive attitude makes everything in life easier. Some days you’ll need to make that choice more than once but never allow others to make that choice for you.
You choose the friends and people that you allow into your life and these friends and people have a major impact on the direction of your life. If you choose to spend your life with negative people, chances are you’ll be a negative person. If you choose to spend your time with unmotivated people it’s likely you won’t be motivated either.
The people in your life are there because you allow them to be there, you may not realize this is a choice you’ve made but it is one of the most important choices you can make in life. Choose very carefully!
Victor Frankl, author of the life changing book, “Man’s Search for Meaning, ” says “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” When you accept that challenge to change yourself then you begin to control your life through better choices.
I believe that we all are born with a purpose in mind. Something that makes our life worth living, something that makes our life matter. It’s something important. Once you have determined that important thing in your life you can live your life on purpose for a purpose. You no longer live your life just for today and take what comes, instead you make what comes.
You may not like where you are in life, but it’s your choices that have put you there. If you desire to be someplace else in life then make different choices because you choose your way to the life you have.
It may seem to you that others can force their choices on you but when you begin each day with the choice of a positive attitude you’ll have more choices than you could have ever imagined. No one, absolutely no one, can force their attitude on you. Frankl says that the choice of our attitude in the last of human freedoms, meaning “they” can take everything else from you but they can never take away your choice of a positive attitude.
Wherever you are in life today, your first step to being someplace else is to acknowledge that you put yourself exactly where you are. Acknowledge that you’ve done that, your choices have done that, the decisions you’ve made have done that. When you acknowledge that your choices in life have consequences, then you begin to control your life and it’s then that you begin to make your success.
Some days I’m happier than others and on the days when I can force myself to be honest about it I realize that it’s my choices that have determined my level of happiness. Successful people find a way to force that honesty upon themselves more days than not.
When you’re willing to accept 100% responsibility for who you are, what you are, and where you are then you’ll discover the power to change any part of your life that you desire.
You’ll also discover that you’ve had the power all along. Don’t waste another day of it!
7 thoughts on “You’ve Chosen Your Life”
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Most people are living a lie. This quote was from a client who said it about himself. He decided to change what his life was about and intentionally move in a direction that’s authentic with who he is.
He is proof it’s possible. Another challenge seems to be…. lots of people are not sure who they really are. It requires lots of reflection to determine that and it amazes me how many people never give it serious consideration.
I concur. Change requires lots of reflection. When I take a client through a career transition, it takes 12 weeks. Why? Lots of reflection. We go deep into places they’ve never gone before. In the end of the process, they can’t believe the changes they’ve made. They own and embrace a new direction for their life.
Sounds like a great process, I always tell folks, you really have to know where you are before you can begin the journey to where you want to be.
Can “thoughts and feelings” be the culprits in controlling your life..? For good or bad..? After all your thoughts create feelings and feeling create a chemical reaction in your body… Change is simple; all we have to do is think and feel differently… From Colleen @eat-simple
I think that changing our thoughts is one of the fastest ways to change our lives. We truly tend to become what we “think” we are…or what other people say we are if we’re not thinking for ourselves.