I teach a Time Management program. I probably shouldn’t since there is actually no such thing as time management. No one has ever managed time. Time does it’s own thing, relentlessly ticking off second after second regardless of what you may need to accomplish.
I hear people saying all the time that they don’t have enough time but the fact is they do. They have all the time in the world. No one who has ever lived has had more time than you have right now. They didn’t have less either.
1440 minutes a day is what each of us gets to accomplish what we will. No one has ever gotten more and barring the coolest tech not yet invented I doubt they ever will.
So time management is a bit of a misnomer, it’s probably better described as event management. The events that make up your day are what chews up your time. The people who seem to have more time are the ones who have mastered the mindset that everything they do during a day is an event.
They see breakfast as an event, they see their morning stop at the coffee shop as an event. They see every phone call as an event and they know that when they have a day full of events they stop adding more. If they do add more they drop something else off their list of events.
Managing the events that make up your day teaches you a very important life lesson: no one has too little time, what they have is very poor prioritization skills.
People without prioritization skills end up doing less important things at the expense of more important things, often at the expense of the most important thing.
They do the easy thing, they do what they like, they do what they have always done. If any of those things happen to be the most important thing, the most productive thing, then that’s a happy coincidence. But successful people don’t rely on coincidence.
If you’re really going to be a good life event manager then you’re going to need to have a serious conversation with yourself. That conversation should be centered around your life goals, your values and your objectives. Most people who fail in doing the most important thing first do so simply because they don’t know what the most important thing is.
Set goals, real goals. Goals that align with your values and principles. Write those goals down and make a plan to achieve them. You’ll be amazed at how much time you really have when pretty much everything you do gets you closer to one of those goals.
Quit trying to manage time and start managing your life, that’s your true path to success.
4 thoughts on “First Things First”
Steve, I agree with everything you said. And, I’d also add we need to manage our energy. Everyone needs to examine how much sleep they get, what they eat, and how often they exercise. Without energy, it doesn’t matter how much time you have.
Thanks Steve, that’s a great point. We’re only fooling ourselves to believe that we don’t need to “resupply” all of our energy sources. People tell me that as humans get older that’s even more important…not that I would know personally.
Wonderfully explained… There’s no such thing as time management – it’s event management. Re labelling the problem, rather, correctly labelling changes the perception & understanding completely. 👌👍
Thanks and thanks especially for investing a bit of your time to read my post!