Mistakes happen. They are a part of life. With any luck they are also part of learning. Actually luck has nothing to do with it. Humility does. Honesty does. A desire to grow does. Authenticity does.
You will never learn from a mistake you will not admit. You will never learn from one of your mistakes that you attempt to blame on someone else.
People who will not admit a mistake are not much better off than the people who won’t try anything outside of their comfort zone because they are afraid of making one.
Mistakes you don’t admit you make again and again. Mistakes you blame on other people you make over and over. There is however a school of thought that says after you make the same mistake 3 or 4 times it’s not a mistake anymore, it’s a decision. I am firmly enrolled in that school.
Successful people are not afraid to admit their mistakes. They accept responsibility for them, learn from them, use what they can to grow and then they move forward towards greater success.
But even better than learning from your mistakes is learning from the mistakes of others. This is most commonly accomplished by paying attention, having a mentor and asking the right people for advice. Notice that I didn’t say asking for advice, I said asking the right people for advice.
It is my belief that the right people are those who have already accomplished something that I’m hoping to accomplish myself. The right people won’t only tell you how to do something, it’s likely they will show you. They can also provide you insights on how not to do something and that’s the advice that can help us learn from their mistakes.
I say “can help” because in order to learn from the advice of others you must be willing to both listen to the advice and do something differently than you otherwise would have because of it.
So let me offer you this advice: Make a mistake! In fact, make lots of them. A good portion of your success will be determined how fast you can make your mistakes. The rest of your success will be determined by how fast you can learn from those mistakes so you don’t repeat them. Extraordinary success will find you if you’re able to learn from the mistakes of others rather than making them yourself.
Everybody makes mistakes. Not everybody can learn from them. Which everybody are you?
8 thoughts on “Learning from Mistakes”
“If we do not learn from the mistakes of the past, we are condemned to repeat them.” George Santyana
That is such a true statement!
“Have you learnt from your mistakes, Sir Arthur?”
“Yes I have, and I am confident that if asked, I could repeat them all perfectly.”
(Peter Cooke and Dudley Moore)
Ha, that’s the “decision” I was talking about 🙂
Being curious about people, observing them, respecting their different ways of doing things, and their mistakes… Help us to learn from the Wisdom of others.
Indeed, I think being curious is absolutely essential to learning!
Wow! Another beautiful piece I must hold on to. So deep and educative. I hope many can learn from this great piece too.